Need some help with my ex gf?

This could mean one of two or possibly more things. She may want to reconcile and repair the previous relationship or she may just want closure so that you guys can be productive friends. The best thing to do is make your desires clear and let her know how you feel because you don't want to walk away with regrets or any self-doubt. I am sure if honesty is put on the table first everything that comes after (even the dark) will be positive. The important thing to ask is are you willing to take the chance to see where this face-to-face meeting could go, and are you willing to deal with the consequences (good or bad)? Then again, she could really just want to humiliate you...you never know until you show or not show. I doubt this is the case though, the last scenario was just presented to show that it is hard to predict what this individual may want. Good-luck and I hope this was helpful :)