I HATE That I LOVE him..............?

This is a tough situation , but trust me not all lost.Be there for him , in fact be a friend and be supportive, but tell him you don't want to hear him talk about not being good enough for this girl.Sometimes , especially when we truly love, we have to let them fly, but if you want to stay in his life , you have to learn to be his friend.the fact, that he doesn't feel good enough for her shows he has a low self esteem , maybe you can help him just by being there.Stick around and he may surprise you.